SAFETY GUIDELINES

ARTICLE 1: GENERAL

Your safety is very important to us. We want to make sure you always feel comfortable and safe on both TDR dates as well as dates that you may arrange outside of TDR. We hope that you will keep these best practices in mind when dating. Don't hesitate to reach out to your Matchmaker if you have questions or concerns regarding your safety.

General Principles:

Always be Respectful and Kind

  • Always be respectful and treat your matches as you would want them to treat you.

  • If you feel the need to end communication, then be honest, direct and polite.

A Comfortable Pace

  • When it comes to creating a meaningful, long-lasting relationship, go at a pace that is comfortable for you. If you feel your date is attempting to rush you, you are always within your right to slow things down.

Trust Your Gut

  • If something feels off or you are uncomfortable at any time, do not hesitate to stop communication or end the date early.

ARTICLE 2: SAFETY

First in-person meetings are exciting, and that excitement can and should last through future dates too, but be mindful of these guidelines to help you stay safe at all times.

Safe and Successful Dates:

  • As you're getting to know one another, meet in a public, well-populated place. Do not opt to meet in a private, remote location or your date's home. If you feel pressure to do so, end the date and leave immediately.

  • Tell at least one friend or family member about your plans, where you are going, who you will be with, and when you will return. Arrange to check in with them after each of the first few dates.

  • If your date offers to pick you up before a date, chances are, they are trying to be chivalrous. However, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, feel free to meet them at the date location instead. We don't recommend letting someone pick you up for a first date.

  • Have your cell phone charged and with you at all times.

  • It's important to keep a clear head. Consumption of alcohol or other drugs that impede your judgment could potentially put you in danger.

  • Have a backup plan in case things do not go the way you expected. If you feel uncomfortable on the date, it's okay to end it early.

  • If you're in an uncomfortable situation, don't hesitate to call a friend and/or alert your server or bartender and ask for help.

ARTICLE 3: PROTECTION

Protection of Personal Information:

1. Sensitive Information: Do not disclose your social security number, credit card number, bank information, or any sensitive personal data to anyone under any circumstances.

2. Addresses: Do not share your home or work address with individuals you haven't met in person.

3. MM Policy: MM will never request your username or password. Report any such requests immediately.

4. Violations Reporting: Report any individuals who violate our Terms & Conditions to contact@matchmakingmasters.com, including:

   - Inappropriate behavior in person or online

   - Offensive emails or messages

   - Requests for money or donations

ARTICLE 4: HEALTH

Health Advisory:

1. Protection: Always use protection such as condoms to reduce the risk of STIs, including HIV. Note that some STIs, such as herpes or HPV, can be transmitted through skin contact even with condom use.

2. Communication: Discuss sexual health with your partner before engaging in sexual activities. Discuss past partners, STI testing history, and any other relevant concerns.

3. Treatment: If either partner has a curable STI, both must complete treatment to avoid reinfection. Honesty in these discussions is essential.

4. Vaccination: Reduce the risk of certain STIs through vaccination.

5. Regular Testing: Undergo regular STI testing, as symptoms may not always be present. Request copies of test results to confirm your status.

ARTICLE 5: HELP/SUPPORT

For Further Help, Support, or Advice:

In an emergency, call 911 immediately. Examples include health threats or sexual, physical, or verbal abuse.

For support related to physical or sexual violence, use these 24-hour hotlines:

- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224, [www.thehotline.org](https://www.thehotline.org)

- Rape, Abuse and Incest National Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), [www.rainn.org](https://www.rainn.org)

- Planned Parenthood: 1-800-230-7526, [www.plannedparenthood.org](https://www.plannedparenthood.org)